I Am A Mother

There are countless things or reason why you can be called a mother.  I will just tell you 1 reason why I am a mother.
One day when I got home from work, my daughter excitedly welcome me and said, “Ma, I have a surprise for you.”  She ran upstairs to get her surprise.

When she came back, she is holding this small box.   “I’m worried that it will not fit you but I hope it will.”

She then excitedly opens the box.  Inside was a handmade ring. 

The ring is made of an old plastic flower (from her old and worn out hair accessories), a wire and a tape.

From the looks of it, you can clearly see how the paint from the flower is already wearing off.

“Ma, try it!” she said. “Is that your new favorite ring now Mom?” she asked. 

The ring can only fit my pinky finger.

“I made it for you Ma. Is it beautiful?  I made sure that the tape will not fall off.”  She said with a smile.

How can you tell a little angel that you can never wear a ring like that in public places?  How can you tell her that it is not as beautiful as she thinks it is?

The answer is “NO!”  As a mom, you cannot tell that to your child.  As a mom, you do not want to break her heart.  BEAUTY IS IN THE EYES OF THE BEHOLDER.  AND TO A MOTHER, HER CHILD AND HER CHILD’S WORK WILL ALWAYS BE THE BEST FOR HER!

From Duck to Swan

As early as 2 ½ yo, I entered my daughter to pre-school.  I thought that in this way, she will learn how to socialize and mingle with people while learning at an early age as well.  She did display intellectual skills.  You can see that she can easily absorb all the lessons in school.  She also speaks straight English (if not fluent).  She can also express herself well.  However, in spite of all this, she is very and I mean VERY shy to people she do not know very well.  Sometimes even to us she gets shy at times. 

This is my problem.  I even went to the point of bribing her just to perform with her classmates on stage in one of the school programs in her school. Imagine, with all the costumes and lots of practices before the said dates.  Just to see my daughter STAND STILL on stage!!!  Heavens!

Last December 2012, a woman in the mall approached us.  She asked me if I am interested to audition my daughter to a commercial.  I said, I will think about it.  However, during days of thinking, I finally dropped by their office.  After she was VTR, the girl told me they will contact me.  Few days passed, I received a phone call.  The girl on the other line told me that my daughter is pretty but shy.  She can hardly talk in front of a camera. She needs to build her confidence which I did not argue because it is true.  She suggested that it will be best if my daughter will undergo a workshop. 

My husband is against it.  He thinks that it is just their way of making money.  He has a point but it is also A FACT THAT MY DAUGHTER NEEDS HELP.  I was able to persuade my husband to enroll my daughter to a workshop.  The workshop is NOT CHEAP.  During the first day, my daughter can hardly enter the classroom.  After reassuring her that I will not leave, she finally agrees to enter.

The workshop includes singing, dancing, acting and modeling.   This is a once a week  (2.5 hrs per session) that lasted for 3 months.  In between those 3 months period, I also encourage my daughter to do some VTRs for other modeling agencies and some modeling contest.  The process was tedious not to mention expensive.

Within the 3 months period, I can see BIG IMPROVEMENTS in her!  She now talks to other kids without hesitation.  Can now act, sing and dance in front of so many people.  It’s been 1 month now since she graduated from her workshop but the LESSONS she learned during the process is PRICELESS.

From a shy little girl, my daughter is now a CONFIDENT KID.

The Magician in the House

My daughter loves reading books. However, instead of going to the library, we normally bring her to the bookstore to read. One day, while I was with her inside the bookstore, I saw this one book entitled “Chenelyn, Chenelyn”.

I can relate to the story so much. My parents are not rich. They belong to the middle class society. When we were still little we help our parents in doing the household chores before going to school. Then, my parents became busier, here comes the magician. Now I am used of having one beside me. I cannot live without one, I guess.

Having one is such a big convenience. When I wake up in the morning, I will just say “Fix my breakfast.” Just that and when I go down, the table is set with my favorite breakfast for the day. Since my husband and I also works and we are both out of the house, I will just say “Take care of my daughter.” Just that, rest assured my daughter will have her food ready, her bath ready and she will be able to go to school and back. Not to mention that she already took her power nap.

If I cannot find something in the house or just lazy to look for it, I will just say what I want and magically it will appear. Yes, I used to have a magician in the house and a WONDERFUL AND RELIABLE magician she is. I missed her soooo much. Now she is gone because of personal reasons but she will always be THE BEST, I EVER HAD!

We Filipinos are used to having maid/s in the house. I do. Just like TRUE LOVE, when you find one that is truly reliable, HOLD ON TO IT. Treat them like a member of the family for THEY ARE LIKE A RARE GEM THAT IS VERY HARD TO FIND. I hope I can find one again.